Comparing profiles and protecting privacy
Compare profiles, share contact details thoughtfully and protect both people’s privacy when messaging and meeting.
Discretion starts with the first message
Keep your first message brief and considerate. Suggest a time and clarify the location, terms and boundaries before planning a visit. Private images, contact details and messages should not be forwarded to other people or posted in public groups.
What should we clarify before meeting?
Agree on location, timing, costs and personal boundaries directly. A profile or category does not establish consent; arrangements may change and either person can cancel a meeting.
How can I browse discreetly?
Use your own device and share only necessary contact details. Saved listings remain in the browser, where other users of a shared device may see them. Do not redistribute someone else’s profile pictures or messages.
Privacy works both ways
Check whether your device shows message previews on its lock screen and whether others use your browser. Share only necessary contact details. Respect the other person’s privacy too: profile photos, former names, meeting addresses and chat histories should not be shared in groups or public reviews without permission.
Frequently asked questions
How can I browse discreetly?
Use your own device and share only necessary contact details. Saved listings remain in the browser, where other users of a shared device may see them. Do not redistribute someone else’s profile pictures or messages.
How do I report a concerning listing?
Use the report function on the listing and describe the specific inconsistency. A report is not a public comment; if harm has occurred, it does not replace taking your own further steps.