First contact: considerate and clear
Tips for your first message: read the profile, discuss wishes respectfully and agree on timing, prices and boundaries before meeting.
Read the whole profile
A large profile image helps you browse, but cannot replace a conversation. Check the region, language, contact options and the advertised setting. Never assume a particular service or availability; ask politely about the details that matter for a possible meeting.
How do I write a respectful first message?
Use the name shown in the profile, introduce yourself briefly and ask about timing and the setting. A preference is a question, not an entitlement. Accept a refusal and do not send repeated messages when there is no interest.
Should I prepay for an address?
Do not send money to an unknown contact just to obtain an address or confirm a booking. End the conversation if you encounter pressure, unclear terms or inconsistent information.
Send a specific first message
For example: “Hello, would Friday evening suit you for contact? What would you like us to clarify first?” Use the name in the profile and adapt the message to the actual offer. Do not send unsolicited explicit images or repeated copied messages.
Frequently asked questions
How do I write a respectful first message?
Use the name shown in the profile, introduce yourself briefly and ask about timing and the setting. A preference is a question, not an entitlement. Accept a refusal and do not send repeated messages when there is no interest.
What should we clarify before meeting?
Agree on location, timing, costs and personal boundaries directly. A profile or category does not establish consent; arrangements may change and either person can cancel a meeting.